What are your thoughts regarding those who primarily are attracted to BDSM because of its “transgressive” nature? Are dominants who embrace BDSM more as a fun, taboo way to explore sexuality any less authentic than those who have committed to the philosophy of BDSM/ base their relationships on power exchange regardless of the sexual elements?
Ownership is entitlement, but the entitlement brings responsibility. A responsibility that should be more than do no harm.
If you are going to take ownership, what responsibilities do you feel you assume?
Does your care result in a sub/slave who also feels a sense of entitlement?
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Is love different in D/s relationships compared to vanilla ones?
Do Dominants and submissives love differently?
Have you experienced submissives falling in love faster than Dominants?
Are there types of love in D/s?
How do you feel about having your submissive not look you in the eye? Do you prefer the lowered gaze in submission? When would it be appropriate for the submissive to look upon you then.
If you feel that lowered gaze isn’t your preference, why? What is the benefit of seeing into thier eyes?
How do you handle misbehavior in public? Do you consider discreet but immediate chastisement or do you punish later in private? How is the punishment responded to? What are your favorite forms of discipline to correct bad behavior?
Do you think that subs confuse submission with love? Is it possible to need to submit because love is there? Is it possible to love someone because they submit?
Do you think Doms confuse Dominance with love? Is it possibl to need to be dominant because love is there? Is it possible to love someone because you control them?
Who “teaches”? Take for example the submissive is more experienced than the dominant. Can the sub teach from the bottom? Should the Dom look to other Doms? Perhaps finding a mentor or start at the bottom?
Many submissives say they have no limits, but what does that really mean to a dominant? How do you feel when a submissive comes to you and says they have no limits? Do you test them right away? Do you try to show them the error of their ways? In your experience can submissives really have no limits, or does it just mean that your limits are compatible with theirs?
How about slaves? How do they differ when it comes to limits?