The Thinking Dominant - Growth Through Mental Exercise

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January 24, 2008

Favorites

Sharing your favorites may seem like childish games, but it could help you focus on what you’d like to offer in a D/s or M/s relationship. Try to answer these as honestly as possible.

Favorite:

  • sexual position
  • bondage style (metal, rope, leather, etc)
  • impact toys
  • psychological play activity
  • non-sexual play
  • manners in a submissive
  • physical attributes
  • training methods
  • sexual orientation
  • domestic skills
  • special services
  • fetishes
  • outfits on a submissive
  • rules to enforce
  • beverage service
  • sexual service
  • behavior in public
  1. First off, I came across your blog, and I like it very much. You have another reader.

    favorite sexual position – sub on knees, face on floor, ass raised and open.

    bondage style – shibari, rope

    impact toys – flogger, heavy deerskin. slapper as well

    psychological play activity – subjective totally. the exploration of psychology is critical, and I know it when I am there.

    non-sexual play – tough one, as sexual play doesn’t have to involve penetration. flogging is highly sexual. must think longer.

    physical attributes – perfect round buttocks, displayed nicely

    training methods – discipline focused specifically around sub’s needs

    sexual orientation – up or down

    domestic skills – cooking

    fetishes – corsets, rubber

    outfits – plastic doll, corsets, thigh highs, collar

    rules to enforce – speech protocols, position training

    beverage service – objectified, as in table

    sexual service – attitude important

    behavior in public – speech

    Comment by Dominalex — January 31, 2008 @ 5:46 pm
  2. Got here through a circuitious route, nice stuff, will be adding you to a reocurring read, thanks.

    sexual position – from behind, on lap facing

    bondage style – rope, wood, organic elements

    impact toys – paddle, hand

    psychological play activity – daddy/little girl

    non-sexual play – cute playful little girl

    manners in a submissive – proper, compliant, respectful

    physical attributes – clean, smooth, toned, proportional

    training methods – physical discipline, restraint, denial

    sexual orientation – straight

    domestic skills – proper household

    fetishes – none

    outfits on a submissive – panties/tanktop, AF girl in public

    rules to enforce – orgasm control, dressing instruction

    beverage service – glass never empty

    sexual service – oral

    behavior in public – quiet, compliant, fliratious

    Comment by David — February 5, 2008 @ 10:46 pm
  3. sexual position : sub on knees ass up and open, kneeling hands behind mouth open, on lap facing
    bondage style : rope, wood
    impact toys : flogger, hand, hair brush
    psychological play activity : total on all levels, varying as per the need
    non-sexual play : pain & humiliation,
    manners in a submissive : compliant, disciplined, respectful in speech manners
    physical attributes : round butt, toned/cuddly,
    training methods : speech & physical restrictions, denial as per the need mostly requiring consistancy
    sexual orientation
    domestic skills : proper household
    fetishes : water sports, corsets, puppy & pony play
    outfits on a submissive : short skirts revealing tops
    rules to enforce : speech protocols, eye contact restriction, position training
    beverage service : objectified
    sexual service : attitude of exploring and ever learning most important
    behavior in public : respetful, free flowing yet controlled

    Comment by kramasha — June 3, 2008 @ 6:01 pm

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