The Thinking Dominant

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Archive for January, 2007

True to Whom?

Wednesday, January 31st, 2007

There are 2 different sects out there; those that believe there is a trueness to themselves and what they do and those that believe that trueness is a state of mind.
Those that believe they are practicing true D/s and BDSM almost always say that what they do is right and if you deviate even a [...]

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Dom Doubts

Wednesday, January 24th, 2007

The following excerpt and link to article is about doubts that plague dominants at one time or another. I have found it very important to be aware of my doubts and to overcome them; to harness that energy and use it for positive reinforcement that way I do is exactly right.
Experienced tops seem so smooth [...]

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Joining Community

Tuesday, January 16th, 2007

When I hear community and relate it to WIITWD, what comes to mind is a mish mash of people, groups and events that try to cater to everyone’s desires, fetishes and needs while staying silent about them. You can go to a munch where ever you are and find someone that doesn’t feel in [...]

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Finding And Keeping

Tuesday, January 9th, 2007

This is going to be a relatively basic thought process this time. I have a few essays I’ve found on the topic of finding and keeping a partner. Most of which have good advice in them, others appear to be common sense. Take the time to read however many of these essays that you wish, [...]

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You Are Dominant

Tuesday, January 2nd, 2007

It’s what you have defined yourself. A dominant personality, a dominant role, a dominant. Wikipedia defines a dominant as:
In human sexual behavior, a dominant is one who enjoys performing any of a variety of BDSM practices upon a submissive; or one who holds a dominant position within a relationship based upon dominance and submission (DS). [...]

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