The Thinking Dominant - Growth Through Mental Exercise

Archive for June, 2007

Quickies

June 26, 2007

Quick Thoughts

  • All of us want to get something out of a scene and most of us want to get something good out of a scene. What happens when things don’t go quite the way you expected? How do you confront and sort through anything from a major catastrophe (serious injury, law enforcement, etc.) to the minor replaying of the scene and how you would have done things differently? What happens when one or the other breaks out of their head space and can’t go on? How do you deal with ensuing crash of the other partner?
  • What is the purpose of play/scene for you?  What do you hope to get out to of the experience?
  • What is the best advice you ever received, and does it apply to your dominance? What is the best advice you could offer to someone seeking to learn about dominance?

Sexual Exploration

June 12, 2007

Exploring Fantasies Series #1

We all have fantasies. Some of them are feasible and one day we just may get to try them. Others we’ve already entertained and found them to be either worth it or not all it was cracked up to be. This series will delve into exploration of your fantasies and the realities of bringing them into reality.

Think about some fantasies that you have entertained in the past.

  • What makes them fantasy? Are they legal? Morally sound? Safe?
  • Would you ever think about making this fantasy happen? Do you have the means to do it?
  • What preparations would you need to have in place?
  • What repercussions or consequences might there be?