Selecting a Fantasy
Once we have thought about the fantasies that go through our head, get us all excited and stir our deepest emotions it’s time to think about how feasible it is to bring one to life. Can we entertain our fantasies? Most definitely for most of them. Granted we will still have a few that have to stay in the dark recesses of our mind feeding our thoughts.
But what about the few that are quite simply made for acting out? This week try to select one fantasy that you would really like to try and than ask yourself a few questions.
There are a few thoughts here:
- What is your fantasy?
- Can it be done safely; with the person you are with and within their limits?
- Is this something that could leave permanent marks, either physically, mentally or emotionally? How would you handle that?
- Do you need to learn anything or get some practice before you attempt to fulfill your fantasy?



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