The Thinking Dominant

Growth Through Mental Exercise

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Journal prompts and writing tasks for the Top's mind...because Dominants need help formulating their thoughts sometimes too....

Archive for November, 2007

Public Play

Thursday, November 29th, 2007

Play Parties 
Do you attend play parties?
What do you enjoy out of them?
What is the most extreme scene you have witnessed? Been involved in?
Have you ever been Dungeon Monitor? What was that like?
Discreet Public Play 
Do you play in public?
What is the most daring thing you or your partner have done in public?
How do you feel about [...]

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Exploring Fantasies Series #5

Thursday, November 15th, 2007

Aftercare and Analysis
You’ve full-filled that fantasy of yours. It may have taken days or weeks to put together.  You and your partner have placed it in your book of memories and you can now check it off the list of things to do or dream.
But you aren’t done. Now comes the analysis. Exactly how did [...]

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Dominance in Relation to BDSM

Thursday, November 1st, 2007

Dominant. A natural role of humans to take charge and care for others. We are a large group of individuals with many different careers and lifestyle choices.
No where is it defined that BDSM has to be a part of a Dominant/submissive lifestyle. But it’s an integral part of its makeup. Every relationship, whether it’s vanilla [...]

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