A New Year’s Resolution is a commitment that an individual makes to a project or a habit, often a lifestyle change that is generally interpreted as advantageous. The name comes from the fact that these commitments normally go into effect on New Year’s Day and remain until the set goal has been achieved, although many resolutions go unachieved and are often broken fairly shortly after they are set.

This year, think about some things that you’d like to achieve pertaining to your role in the Lifestyle. Your dominant personae.

• How would you like to see yourself at this time next year?
• What goals would you like to achieve?
• Reflect on where you were at this time last year, what have you learned?
• What can you pass on to a new dominant so that they don’t make the same mistakes?

BDSM Quickies are not about sex. They are about play (which I understand, for some of you IS sex). To discern the two, let’s agree that BDSM does not have to involve sexual penetration. This can be from a quick spanking, to a forced humiliation scene lasting less than 15 mins, or in fact any short scene that enhances your life that takes very little time to do.

• What are your favorite BDSM quickies?
• Do they satisfy you, or just stir your lust for more?
• What role do quickies play in your D/s relationship?
• If you don’t engage in BDSM quickies, why not?