BDSM Quickies are not about sex. They are about play (which I understand, for some of you IS sex). To discern the two, let’s agree that BDSM does not have to involve sexual penetration. This can be from a quick spanking, to a forced humiliation scene lasting less than 15 mins, or in fact any short scene that enhances your life that takes very little time to do.
- What are your favorite BDSM quickies?
- Do they satisfy you, or just stir your lust for more?
- What role do quickies play in your D/s relationship?
- If you don’t engage in BDSM quickies, why not?
actually, these “quickies” are often excellent ways to underline and reaffirm a D/s relationship - particularly when lives are busy!
my favourites - his hand on my neck under my hair, squeezing - makes my knees weak and can be done anywhere - often done when I’m stressed, even in public - looks innocuous.
a quick foray to his home office, unzip, blow job (not necessarily finished), hands tangled in hair, on the knees - can only be 10 minutes or less but again, reaffirms, also great foreplay.
hand down the back of my pants between my legs - lightening quick - I wear very low slung pants so this is easy done.
we have lots of little rituals like that, with 4 kids, numerous friends (theirs) a houseful of animals, fulltime jobs … well, you have to do something and the bonus for me is that being reassured like that always calms me.
selkie
April 22nd, 2008