January 24, 2008
Sharing your favorites may seem like childish games, but it could help you focus on what you’d like to offer in a D/s or M/s relationship. Try to answer these as honestly as possible.
Favorite:
- sexual position
- bondage style (metal, rope, leather, etc)
- impact toys
- psychological play activity
- non-sexual play
- manners in a submissive
- physical attributes
- training methods
- sexual orientation
- domestic skills
- special services
- fetishes
- outfits on a submissive
- rules to enforce
- beverage service
- sexual service
- behavior in public
January 10, 2008
Manners and etiquette are an important part of a submissive’s training. From basic courtesy to rigid formal protocol they all have their place in a submissive’s experience. When it comes to teaching manners, it is the Dominant’s preference on how these manners are to be used.
I like a more structured protocol, from the basic p’s and q’s to a proper apology format. I prefer submissives to use Sir or Madam rather than names as soon as they know this person or that identifies as a Dominant. It’s out of respect for me that they do it, not because they necessarily respect the Dom to which they are addressing.
- What sort of manners do you prefer to see in a submissive?
- If protocol is required, how do you begin training?
- Why do you prefer a certain level of etiquette more than another?
- How do you chastise a lapse in pleasantries?