The Thinking Dominant

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Archive for January, 2008

Favorites

Thursday, January 24th, 2008

Sharing your favorites may seem like childish games, but it could help you focus on what you’d like to offer in a D/s or M/s relationship. Try to answer these as honestly as possible.
Favorite:

sexual position
bondage style (metal, rope, leather, etc)
impact toys
psychological play activity
non-sexual play
manners in a submissive
physical attributes
training methods
sexual orientation
domestic skills
special services
fetishes
outfits on a submissive
rules [...]

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Politeness

Thursday, January 10th, 2008

Manners and etiquette are an important part of a submissive’s training. From basic courtesy to rigid formal protocol they all have their place in a submissive’s experience. When it comes to teaching manners, it is the Dominant’s preference on how these manners are to be used.
I like a more structured protocol, from the basic p’s [...]

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