Sharing your favorites may seem like childish games, but it could help you focus on what you’d like to offer in a D/s or M/s relationship. Try to answer these as honestly as possible.
Favorite:
- sexual position
- bondage style (metal, rope, leather, etc)
- impact toys
- psychological play activity
- non-sexual play
- manners in a submissive
- physical attributes
- training methods
- sexual orientation
- domestic skills
- special services
- fetishes
- outfits on a submissive
- rules to enforce
- beverage service
- sexual service
- behavior in public


First off, I came across your blog, and I like it very much. You have another reader.
favorite sexual position - sub on knees, face on floor, ass raised and open.
bondage style - shibari, rope
impact toys - flogger, heavy deerskin. slapper as well
psychological play activity - subjective totally. the exploration of psychology is critical, and I know it when I am there.
non-sexual play - tough one, as sexual play doesn’t have to involve penetration. flogging is highly sexual. must think longer.
physical attributes - perfect round buttocks, displayed nicely
training methods - discipline focused specifically around sub’s needs
sexual orientation - up or down
domestic skills - cooking
fetishes - corsets, rubber
outfits - plastic doll, corsets, thigh highs, collar
rules to enforce - speech protocols, position training
beverage service - objectified, as in table
sexual service - attitude important
behavior in public - speech
Dominalex
January 31st, 2008
Got here through a circuitious route, nice stuff, will be adding you to a reocurring read, thanks.
sexual position - from behind, on lap facing
bondage style - rope, wood, organic elements
impact toys - paddle, hand
psychological play activity - daddy/little girl
non-sexual play - cute playful little girl
manners in a submissive - proper, compliant, respectful
physical attributes - clean, smooth, toned, proportional
training methods - physical discipline, restraint, denial
sexual orientation - straight
domestic skills - proper household
fetishes - none
outfits on a submissive - panties/tanktop, AF girl in public
rules to enforce - orgasm control, dressing instruction
beverage service - glass never empty
sexual service - oral
behavior in public - quiet, compliant, fliratious
David
February 5th, 2008
sexual position : sub on knees ass up and open, kneeling hands behind mouth open, on lap facing
bondage style : rope, wood
impact toys : flogger, hand, hair brush
psychological play activity : total on all levels, varying as per the need
non-sexual play : pain & humiliation,
manners in a submissive : compliant, disciplined, respectful in speech manners
physical attributes : round butt, toned/cuddly,
training methods : speech & physical restrictions, denial as per the need mostly requiring consistancy
sexual orientation
domestic skills : proper household
fetishes : water sports, corsets, puppy & pony play
outfits on a submissive : short skirts revealing tops
rules to enforce : speech protocols, eye contact restriction, position training
beverage service : objectified
sexual service : attitude of exploring and ever learning most important
behavior in public : respetful, free flowing yet controlled
kramasha
June 3rd, 2008