The Thinking Dominant

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Journal prompts and writing tasks for the Top's mind...because Dominants need help formulating their thoughts sometimes too....

Archive for February, 2008

Pain Giver

Thursday, February 21st, 2008

I read an interesting post the other day about the administration of pain and the sadistic dominant’s desire to inflict pain on the submissive. His exact question is: “Does a dominant want to hurt his submissive?” I was going to include my thoughts here for a moment, but I find that I don’t want to [...]

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Honesty

Thursday, February 7th, 2008

It is almost a universal knowledge that dominants expect their submissives to be honest with them. There is a real push to have complete openness and honesty in a BDSM relationship. There is no doubt that an open mind and heart can help make sure that all people in the relationship are getting what they [...]

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