Describe a clothing preference you have for yourself or your partner.

1. Does it have s story of its inception?
2. Is it a fetish or just a preference?
3. Why do you like this form or article of dress?

In a previous post you decided on a couple characteristics that you’d like to develop further as  you grow as a Dominant. Continuing on that subject this post is going to focus on following through on your plans.

Bring out your action plan and begin putting it into action. Remember this is your personal plan so changes in your partner are not what this is about. (If you need help coming up with the action plan, go back and read the previous post.)

Go step by step and practice what you’d like to improve. You do not need to go full steam ahead right at first. For example, if your action plan involves learning Florentine flogging, you won’t go right out and start swinging 2 floggers. Learn and strengthen your single flogging method first, strengthen your non-dominant arm, go to classes and get one on one assistance to learn the right way to do this.

Write about each step as you progress, making sure to note what other things you may have missed in your action plan that you now need to include. Make these minor steps part of your plan in progress. All of these will improve your character, behavior or technique

• Top 10 things I really enjoy doing in a scene as a top.
• Top 10 things you worry about going wrong during a scene.
• Top 10 things you want your bottom to do during a scene.
• Top 10 things play things you want to master for scenes.