January 27, 2009
How do you handle misbehavior in public? Do you consider discreet but immediate chastisement or do you punish later in private? How is the punishment responded to? What are your favorite forms of discipline to correct bad behavior?
January 20, 2009
Do you think that subs confuse submission with love? Is it possible to need to submit because love is there? Is it possible to love someone because they submit?
Do you think Doms confuse Dominance with love? Is it possibl to need to be dominant because love is there? Is it possible to love someone because you control them?
January 13, 2009
Who “teaches”? Take for example the submissive is more experienced than the dominant. Can the sub teach from the bottom? Should the Dom look to other Doms? Perhaps finding a mentor or start at the bottom?
January 6, 2009
Tags: limits, no limits, slave, submissive
Many submissives say they have no limits, but what does that really mean to a dominant? How do you feel when a submissive comes to you and says they have no limits? Do you test them right away? Do you try to show them the error of their ways? In your experience can submissives really have no limits, or does it just mean that your limits are compatible with theirs?
How about slaves? How do they differ when it comes to limits?