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January 6, 2009

No Limits

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Many submissives say they have no limits, but what does that really mean to a dominant? How do you feel when a submissive comes to you and says they have no limits? Do you test them right away? Do you try to show them the error of their ways? In your experience can submissives really have no limits, or does it just mean that your limits are compatible with theirs?

How about slaves? How do they differ when it comes to limits?

  1. Everyone has limits..no exceptions..How we approach them is the trick..what type of limit etc..I would never rush into trying to exceed what someones limit is just to prove a point..A sub or slaves limits will not always be compatible so variation in reaching her limits and then easing beyond them take time patience and energy btweeen both of you.

    Comment by Jim — February 7, 2009 @ 10:47 am
  2. i think there are always obvious limits.

    And then there are other things.

    Master has pushed me towards things that i’ve always thought i wouldn’t do out of fear or worry about what others would think.

    Most of the time, I find that when he pushes me in that case that there really isn’t any shame or guilt. i don’t feel like i thought i’d feel — instead i feel free.

    Comment by tiggie — May 8, 2009 @ 12:41 am

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