Love
Is love different in D/s relationships compared to vanilla ones?
Do Dominants and submissives love differently?
Have you experienced submissives falling in love faster than Dominants?
Are there types of love in D/s?
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I don’t think that love is an different in D/s as in vanilla. Love does not come from fetishes, kinks or sex..It comes from the heart and soul. Love is the emotional part that binds all of this together no matter which way you try to put it. We are still human and man and woman..Think about it..As for subs fallin in love faster than Doms..I don’t know if we have any statistics. It would be interestng to know. Do Dom and sub love differently..don’t know..
Maybe we should take a poll and ask those questions and see how many respond.
The obvious answer at first blush is, love is love, and it is true. Two people caring for each other, drawn together through common interests and affection. However, I think at times there is a greater intensity . . .
http://dsinvegas.blogspot.com/2009/02/whats-love-got-to-do-with-it.html
I am going to disagree with Jim and David to a point. I think love in an D/s relationship is more intense than the love in a vanilla relationship. I don’t spank my girl because she likes it (she does) not to punish her (too often). I spank her because I love her enough to do it. The love we share is so intense that when we are together we can read each other like well read books. While some of this is true for those in vanilla relationships, I don’t believe that a vanilla man and woman can know the intensity of love that my slave and I share even across time and space.
I think love is love but it can be interpreted in different intensities. New love vs married 20 years. Both are love and I think when we practice D/s we are intensifying the love.
Intensity is the key word here…good communication brings it about. My humble opinion
I believe that love within the D/s relationship is much deeper and fuller than the love within the vanilla lifestyle. When my slave and I became partners many moons ago we began in Vanilla. The love was there, we were in love and happy, but then we became Lacis and Bear and our love became that much deeper and fuller love. I think when you become part of the D/s lifestyle whether it be a lifestyle choice or TPE, you have a stronger, deeper connection with your partner, spouse or slave and things begin to change. Our relationship has become much deeper, stronger, and connected better than when were ever in Vanilla.