The Thinking Dominant

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Journal prompts and writing tasks for the Top's mind...because Dominants need help formulating their thoughts sometimes too....

Archive for the 'Definitions' Category

Limits

Thursday, April 10th, 2008

Define your limits. Explain why you can’t or won’t go past that point and try to think about things that were once limits but are not any longer. This list can be a working list that you come back to often to update.

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Dominance in Relation to BDSM

Thursday, November 1st, 2007

Dominant. A natural role of humans to take charge and care for others. We are a large group of individuals with many different careers and lifestyle choices.
No where is it defined that BDSM has to be a part of a Dominant/submissive lifestyle. But it’s an integral part of its makeup. Every relationship, whether it’s vanilla [...]

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Mentoring

Wednesday, February 7th, 2007

Mentoring in this lifestyle is a topic of varying opinions; much like everything else. Tops volunteer to mentor bottoms, submissives with other submissives and then you have the people that are self declared mentors that will take on anyone that has the desire.
Albany Power Exchange essay says, “A Mentor is a guide, a teacher, an [...]

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You Are Dominant

Tuesday, January 2nd, 2007

It’s what you have defined yourself. A dominant personality, a dominant role, a dominant. Wikipedia defines a dominant as:
In human sexual behavior, a dominant is one who enjoys performing any of a variety of BDSM practices upon a submissive; or one who holds a dominant position within a relationship based upon dominance and submission (DS). [...]

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