The Thinking Dominant

Growth Through Mental Exercise

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Journal prompts and writing tasks for the Top's mind...because Dominants need help formulating their thoughts sometimes too....

Archive for the 'Quickies' Category

Top Tens

Tuesday, July 1st, 2008

Top 10 things I really enjoy doing in a scene as a top.
Top 10 things you worry about going wrong during a scene.
Top 10 things you want your bottom to do during a scene.
Top 10 things play things you want to master for scenes.

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Favorites

Thursday, January 24th, 2008

Sharing your favorites may seem like childish games, but it could help you focus on what you’d like to offer in a D/s or M/s relationship. Try to answer these as honestly as possible.
Favorite:

sexual position
bondage style (metal, rope, leather, etc)
impact toys
psychological play activity
non-sexual play
manners in a submissive
physical attributes
training methods
sexual orientation
domestic skills
special services
fetishes
outfits on a submissive
rules [...]

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BDSM Quickies

Thursday, December 13th, 2007

BDSM Quickies are not about sex. They are about play (which I understand, for some of you IS sex). To discern the two, let’s agree that BDSM does not have to involve sexual penetration. This can be from a quick spanking, to a forced humiliation scene lasting less than 15 mins, or in fact any [...]

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Quick Thoughts

Tuesday, June 26th, 2007

All of us want to get something out of a scene and most of us want to get something good out of a scene. What happens when things don’t go quite the way you expected? How do you confront and sort through anything from a major catastrophe (serious injury, law enforcement, etc.) to the minor [...]

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