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Exploring Fantasies Series #5

Thursday, November 15th, 2007

Aftercare and Analysis
You’ve full-filled that fantasy of yours. It may have taken days or weeks to put together.  You and your partner have placed it in your book of memories and you can now check it off the list of things to do or dream.
But you aren’t done. Now comes the analysis. Exactly how did [...]

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Exploring Fantasies Series #4

Thursday, October 18th, 2007

Playing It Out
The next step in exploring your fantasy is enacting it. It can be the most fun and rewarding part of the whole thing. If you have done all the preparation steps then this will be easy for you because your partner is ready and willing (hopefully) and you have everything you need to [...]

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Exploring Fantasies Series #3

Tuesday, August 7th, 2007

Negotiating the Fantasy 
Once you have a fantasy picked out that you’d like to bring into reality it is time to discuss this with your partner. This should be no different than a planned negotiated scene. Now if you are beyond needing to do that, I still recommend presenting this fantasy scene as something new and [...]

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Exploring Fantasies Series #2

Tuesday, July 10th, 2007

Selecting a Fantasy
Once we have thought about the fantasies that go through our head, get us all excited and stir our deepest emotions it’s time to think about how feasible it is to bring one to life. Can we entertain our fantasies? Most definitely for most of them. Granted we will still have a few [...]

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Exploring Fantasies Series #1

Tuesday, June 12th, 2007

We all have fantasies. Some of them are feasible and one day we just may get to try them. Others we’ve already entertained and found them to be either worth it or not all it was cracked up to be. This series will delve into exploration of your fantasies and the realities of bringing them [...]

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