Who “teaches”? Take for example the submissive is more experienced than the dominant. Can the sub teach from the bottom?  Should the Dom look to other Doms? Perhaps finding a mentor or start at the bottom?

Many submissives say they have no limits, but what does that really mean to a dominant? How do you feel when a submissive comes to you and says they have no limits? Do you test them right away? Do you try to show them the error of their ways? In your experience can submissives really have no limits, or does it just mean that your limits are compatible with theirs?

How about slaves? How do they differ when it comes to limits?

With the new year approaching it may be time to consider how you want to ring in NEXT YEAR. What can you work on this coming year that will improve your self awareness, your talents or your relationship? Make a plan to change or enhance one thing about yourself. Make this new year about a new focus; yourself.

• When are you not in role? What defines you?
• What do you think about submissives that switch roles and become dominants? (different than switches)
• Do you have another personae on the internet than you do in real life? Do you practice online D/s with this personae?

ls there a point where you feel that behavior modification or changing a slave goes too far?

Once someone enters an M/s relationship, do you think that it’s fair, right, whatever word you want to use here, for the Master to change the orginal agreement; or, do you think that s/he has the right to make whatever changes he desires without “checking” with the slave?

I have noticed a trend of higher levels of manners and chivalry amongst kinky peoples.

• What does chivalry mean to you?
• Do you have rules of manners and etiquette for your submissive?
• Who holds doors, orders food and handles money?
• What importance is ettiquette for your dynamic?

The right to vote, a privilege to everyone in the US.  To those in a D/s relationship, it may have been gifted along with the submissive.

• Will you be voting today?
• Do you allow your submissive to vote?
• Are they able to vote for themselves or do you tell them who to vote for?
• Why do you feel this is a sensitive topic amongst the community?

We’ve probably all talked sub drop to death, but what about Top drop?

• Do you experience Top drop?
• How common do you think it is?
• What is it like for you?
• Do you have any aftercare or remedies?
• Any preventative methods?

Is Love necessary in a D/s or M/s relationship? If love isn’t necessary, what is the glue to the relationship?

What other things are important ingredients to a relationship?